You’ve heard the myths, now here are some facts about mental illness

Have you ever read that people with schizophrenia are violent, dangerous or unpredictable? Heard someone say that mental illness is all in your head? Or that only certain people get a mental illness? As a former mental health ward manager in one of London’s busiest mental health settings, I’ve heard many myths about mental illness. Here are my top 10 mental illness myths, together with the facts
- Mental illness won’t affect me. FACT – Mental illnesses are surprisingly common; they don’t discriminate and can affect anyone. In fact, I think most of us know someone who has a mental health problem.Approximately 1 in 4 people in the UK will experience a mental health problem each year. In England, 1 in 6 people report experiencing a common mental health problem, such as anxiety and depression, in any given week, mind.org.uk.
- People with mental illness are just weak. FACT: Mental health disorders are not a personal choice, nor are they caused by personal weakness. Mental illness might occur due to a combination of genetic, biological, psychological, or social factors. Research has shown genetic and biological factors are associated with schizophrenia, depression, and alcoholism. Social influences, such as loss of a loved one or a job, can also contribute to the development of various disorders.
- You can tell when someone has a mental illness. FACT: Many people think you can see when someone has a mental illness — maybe they think that a mentally ill person looks different, acts crazy, or always comes across as depressed or anxious. This is not true. Anyone can have a mental illness, even if they look completely normal, seem happy, or have a lot of money, a great job and a big house, redbookmag.com
- People don’t recover from mental illnesses. FACT: Recovery is absolutely possible in some mental illnesses. As yet, there is no cure for mental illness, but there is recovery. Recovering from mental illness includes not only getting better, but achieving a meaningful and satisfying life. Indeed, lots of people with mental health problems still work, have families and lead fulfilling lives. Being told that you have a mental illness is not the end of the world. With help and support, people can recover and achieve their life’s ambitions.
- People with a mental illness can’t tolerate the stress of work. FACT: With one in four people affected by mental illness, you probably work with someone with a mental health problem. Many people can and do work with mental illness, such as depression or anxiety, with little impact on productivity. However, like any illness, there are times when the person isn’t able to work due to the severity of the condition. FACT: According to MentalHealth.gov people with a mental health illness are just as productive as other employees. Employers who’ve hired people with a mental illness report good punctuality, attendance, and motivation, good work, and on par with or better than other employees.
- People with schizophrenia are violent. FACT: Mainstream media has been guilty of regularly portraying people with mental illness as violent. In truth, this is rarely the case. People with a mental illness are much more likely to be the victim of violence. While research has shown there is an increased risk of violence in those living with paranoid schizophrenia and anti-social personality disorder, in general, mental health sufferers are more at risk of being attacked or harming themselves. Official statistics consistently show that most violent crimes and homicides are committed by people who don’t have mental health problems.
- People with a mental illness are lazy and should just snap out of it. FACT: This is certainly not true and there are lots of reasons why some people might look lazy. Many people with a mental illness experience fatigue and lethargy as part of their illness or from side effects of their medication. This is not laziness. People can’t just snap out of a mental illness if they try hard enough, and many often need help to get better. This help might include medication, counselling and support from their care team, carers, family and friends and their workplace.
- People with mental illness rely on medication. FACT: Medication can be used on a short-term basis, especially for depression and anxiety, but for other mental illnesses, medication is used long-term. Mental illness is not like a physical illness because it can’t always be treated with one single medication. Often, a group of medications is needed for someone with a mental health disorder i.e. antipsychotics and antidepressants together with antiemetic medication to treat the side effects of antipsychotics.
- Mental illness is “all in your head. It’s not a real medical problem.“ FACT: There’s still a common belief that someone with anxiety can “just calm down” or someone with depression can “snap out of it, if they try”, like they can pick how and when to have an episode come or go. That’s simply not true. There are psychological and real physical symptoms. Someone who has depression may see changes in appetite, libido and sleep pattern and someone with anxiety might feel breathless, have palpitations and feel nauseous or dizzy. Someone with schizophrenia might be lethargic with low motivation due negative symptoms or side effects of medication.
- Asking someone about suicidal thoughts and feelings will make them do it. FACT: If someone says they are thinking about suicide, it can be very distressing. You might not know what to do to help, whether to be concerned or your talking about it will make the situation worse. However, asking about suicidal thoughts or feelings won’t push someone into doing something self-destructive. In fact, offering an opportunity to talk about feelings may reduce the risk of acting on suicidal feelings, Mayoclinic.org.

Unfortunately these myths about mental illness often contribute to the stigma and discrimination that many people still face. It’s so important that we challenge these myths so we can understand the real facts around a mental illness.
If you’ve had any of the feeling or thoughts as described above, please find someone to talk to. You can always talk to your GP in confidence, or look up your local branch of the Samaritans. Many people experience mental illness and you don’t have to suffer alone.
Over to you

Have you ever had to, or how would you challenge a friend or family member about these myths? Would you feel comfortable about calling people out, or would you just ignore them? If you have questions about any of the above, I’m happy to answer, and I’m always willing to offer support and information.
Whenever I have someone who doubts bipolar disorder or poem addiction is real, I say some version of this: “I hope that you realize how lucky you are that you can have such an uninformed, ignorant position. I wish I could trade places with you, but I’ve lived it.”
Porn addiction. Not poem addiction. I’m just a recreational reader of sonnets. I can quit anytime.
Poem addiction – that’s a new one 😉 Caz x
About number 7: People who are dealing with a mental illness might also seem tired from having to put so much effort into counteracting their symptoms so they can continue working and just getting through the day. Thanks for taking on these myths and encouraging compassion for the experience of mental illness.
You’re right, missed that one. And I should have known that one as I remember how tired I used to be at the end of each day when I was depressed. Thank you for your comment and for taking the time to read my post. I think it’s important to continue raising awareness of mental illness and reduce the stigma. Caz x
Such an interesting post to read and really informative! Thanks for sharing! As you say it is so important to reduce the stigma that surrounds mental illness.
Such an insightful post. I learned so much from your wisdom.
This was a helpful post. I am out of the closet with my schizophrenia. Everyone at my job at Walgreens knows about it. Everyone in my hometown knew about it. My family, friends, and casual acquaintances know about it. Everyone in my sister’s high school class knows about it. I tell people about it when I meet them. I used to hide it but got sick of leading a double life. Strangely, no one cares when I tell them.
I’m glad you’re out Christopher. Holding it in secret is a lot of hard work. I’m going to drop by your blog 🙂
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Thank you Craig, much appreciated. Caz x
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That’s really great — thank you 🙂
It’s really educative.
More please..
Thank you. Keep your eyes peeled for more 🙂
I enjoyed this article. There are lots of truths in it! 🙂
Thanks Mio. Yes, no doubt you’ve heard one or two 😉
Great myth-busting! I have to fight off my personal belief that I’m weak a lot of the time. And actually, #5 totally applies to me: I can’t function at work at all due to stress!! But I’m glad to see that it doesn’t apply to every mentally ill person!!
Thanks again Meg. Of course, when we’re rational, we know that we’re not weak. How can we be, when we have to climb this mountain that is mental illness, day in and day out?
I’ve worked with people with a variety of mental health disorders and I’ve known many with Bipolar and schizophrenia return to Uni, college or work.
Thanks for such an insightful post. I now understand this issue that is most times ignored and treated as private.
Really happy to hear you enjoyed this post and found it useful. It’s always nice to receive positive feedback. Caz x